I haven't turned my DH to the Disney-side but he doesn't suck the life out of vacations either. He plans several
rounds of golf which makes him happy. I do wonder though does your DH act like this when spending any money
or going anywhere else on a trip? Could it just be the money issue with him?
to you and your kids for a happy vacation. If
it was me, I would plan all other Disney vacations without him. Since he can't be happy (just for his kids sake) then
maybe you should just enjoy it for him. Don't stop your kids from having Disney fun just because your DH doesn't
want to.