My Dh is a little downer -- not so much as yours. He thinks I spend too much time on these boards and planning things. I told him for this trip, I wouldn't "plan" anything, only get some ADR's so we'd have something to eat. So when he saw my notes about park hours and stuff he went a little nuts. Just once, I wish he'd get a little excited and ask where we were going to eat, or have some kind of input.
I sympathize with you!!
