| You're not alone. I've got 4 1/2 months until my wedding/honeymoon and everyday it gets more stressful. I've found that taking days off from wedding tasks helps a lot! Plan a wedding free day where you don't talk about the wedding/honeymoon and just do something fun with your fiance like you used to do before the wedding planning took over. I find that helps a ton! We've taken on a lot of wedding do it yourself projects as we're trying to save money and it always seems like none of it is getting done. Taking time off from the projects helps me see how much is actually getting done. I find if I'm in "wedding mode" all the time I only feel like nothing is getting done when it actually is.
Sorry your work is stressful as well. Its hard planning a wedding and working especially if your job is stressful. Its my busy time at work too so I completely feel your pain. Unfortunately, at least for me, there is little that can be done about workload/stresses. I'm just looking at it this way: I've got huge wedding/honeymoon bills that I need to pay and my job helps me with that. It helps a little to think of it that way. And I just keep reminding myself that there will be a vacation along with the wedding. I'm actually lucky enough to get 3 weeks off for my wedding so I've got the entire week before and two weeks after to re-group.
I'm trying not to stress about the honeymoon and just let Disney take care of it. It's going to be a great vacation no matter what! I've planned some dinner reservations, but that's about it. We'll figure out the rest when we get there. If I were you I'd just let the honeymoon happen and not worry about it at all! Its your reward for getting through the wedding. And you'll be there with your new hubby, what could be better than that?
Hang in there. Either way you're getting married and thats what matters right?
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