| Congrtulations on your Engagement and Wedding Planning. I'm sorry you're experiencing all the stress of 3 people's jobs in one at work, besides Wedding/Honeymoon Work. I'm actually a Wedding Planning Student right now as we speak and it isn't easy. Wedding planning is stressful. Like previously mentioned, take some time away from Wedding things. Take a walk with your fiance or see a movie you really want to see or have a date night out or in. Enjoy being together.
I can speak of my DH and I trying to plan a Wedding when I was pregnant with DS and that was extremely stressful, even just buying our rings, getting our marriage license, finding a Justice of the Peace to marry us (sorry we did take the easy way out) and a nice dinner after, but when we got married and being 7 months along, the only stress I needed was making sure our baby was healthy and would come out alright. We're planning a bigger Vow Renewal for family and close friends and even that stresses us on on how are we going to pay for everything? We haven't gone on our Honeymoon yet, b/c we haven't had the time or money for it, but our siblings' weddings were more important for us to attend (given I was a BM in my sister's wedding and DH is the BM in his brother's wedding so we had to be there) and my lil bro is being Bar Mitzvahed this year so those events were more important to save for than a Honeymoon right away (which we couldn't travel anyway b/c of my pregnancy), but I try not to talk about planning since I know it drives DH crazy.
Besides us fellow Passporters who are here to help, if you have a Wedding Planner, they're great for stress reduction and venting to. It's part of their job. Do you have alone time at home where you can make your own spa masks, enjoy a warm bubble bath with a pillow, a glass of wine, maybe some grapes, a book to enjoy and just get some "Me" time in there? That might help you ease your mind a little bit and help you relax too. If you need someone on here to vent to, please feel free to private message me. Good luck and I hope you can find something to ease your stress. |