The secrets of the bedroom...not as racy a topic as it sounds!
Gosling says there are three kinds of clues to personality that can be found in the bedroom.
Identity claims show how they want to be seen by the world.
Behavioral residue tells about how we live our lives.
Thoughts and feeling regulators show the things we use to create a mood.
My first thought on this is that, since I am a person who tends to spread out and compartmentalize, most of my identity claims are in my office, many of my thoughts and feeling regulators are in my private practice treatment area, and my behavioral residue is all over the place...and I mean ALL OVER the place!
Be that as it may, I took a good look at my bedroom.
Uhhh, let's just say Adult Disney Princess.
By default, my bedroom set is the white and gold four poster that I grew up with. One day, I'm sure, I'll buy something new, but it kind-of suits me now and it is paid for. Well, the bedspread that I picked online happens to look JUST LIKE the one in the guest room at Cinderella Castle. Yup! Dark blue and gold with a similar pattern! I was looking at close-out deals online and I guess I recognized the pattern without consciously realizing that it was like photos I'd seen of the guest suite.
To make it worse, I bought a small white chandelier online in a close-out! I can't even go on or I will just embarass myself!