[mechurchlady]

Some people are able to get out of ruts or have strong friends to get them out of ruts. I am blessed to have online people who have helped me grow and get out of my ruts. Your brother in law apparently does not have those kind of people in his life or maybe he has enablers who protect him and encourage him to stay in his situation. Especially now that I am going to WDW I see whiners who complain when all it takes is one little action. Sometimes we expect the problem to go away like sitting under a dripping flower pot when we could slide over a bit and be free of the drip or whip out an umbrella. it is time for you to be the prayer warrior for your brother in law and pray that he gets out of his ruts and changes things.

Last night there was a woman with a herd of toddlers that seemed to be one kid right after another. She would turn them loose in the parking lot then a few minutes later round up the screaming kids and yell at them. I could have called front desk or yelled at her but I pitied her. I wondered what led her to having so many kids without a support group of family and friends helping her. I prayed for her to get help. It takes a strong person to pray for someone like your brother in law and to pity him. And I thank God that I did not end up like that lady with all them kids just as you be thankful that you and Lenny did not end up like your brother in law.

Sending you lots of hugs and prayers and chocolates
how is Lenny doing?
How are you doing?
If you need anything just holler.