Thanks for the update. It sounds like you all are getting in the swing of things. I think our whole family sleeps more than normal on a cruise - all that relaxing is so tiring to me and the kids are just so hyped that they fizzle out.
I feel your pain on Alexander's changes. DD is 18 months and has been on many different kinds of trips. She never really fusses on a plane but the one time when she did the people in front of us were complaning loudly. Luck you kept your composure. I lost my temper and told the people "I don't find the babies crying half as annoying as your insescent (sp??) complaining." Needless to say, the rest of the flight was awkward.
Enjoy the rest of your trip and try to enjoy your celebrity moments. The people who recognize you obviously think highly of you guys. I would imagine it could get overwhelming, though. Don't bail out of your spa visit - you deserve some pampering. Keep us updated! Have fun!